I have something to tell you and it’s not going to sound very nice. But, I say this with only love……
It’s your fault you’re not manifesting what you want.
I know that sounds harsh, but I have to get your attention because this is important!
Here’s the thing…you’re gonna get exactly what you expect to get. Even if you practice all the other manifesting tips, whatever you expect to happen, will happen.
And this expectation can sometimes be buried way far down in your subconscious. You may not even realize that you have a subconscious expectation that’s the complete opposite of what you want.
This could be blocking your manifestations from being successful.
For example, if you’re having a bad day, you can’t blame your co-workers because they didn’t have time to help you with a project. You likely have some form of subconscious belief that you have to do it yourself to get it done right.
If people are driving terribly on your commute, subconsciously, that’s what you expected to happen, so that’s what you got!
When it comes to the Law of Attraction, you’re the only one stopping yourself from successfully manifesting what you want.
Now, while you are the only one stopping yourself from getting what you want, the great news is, you’re also the one who can turn that around to get what you want.
You don’t need to wait for someone or something external to come and save you like in the fairy tales.
Here’s the key…..What you’re manifesting has to feel natural to you. If it doesn’t feel natural, you’re not likely going to be successful.
BUT that’s okay if it doesn’t feel natural at first. Don’t let that discourage you.
As with everything else in your life, you have the power to change that!
You can get to that natural feeling state with your imagination. Use your imagination until what you want feels natural. You’ll have to continuously practice and strengthen your imagination until you get better and better at using it.
Stay tuned for a challenge on this shortly!
When you start to feel disappointed or frustrated, you have to persist and keep imagining.
If you don’t, you’ll put yourself into a state of resistance. You have to keep faith and know that the universe will provide you with the right thing at the right time.
Remember, if you don’t imagine yourself as something other than what you currently are, you’ll remain as you currently are. You have that control.
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Okay, Are you ready for a little challenge to help strengthen your imagination?
I want you to imagine…you’re at a park on a nice day. The temperature is warm, but not too hot. There is a bit of a breeze and a few white puffy clouds in the sky.
You just picked up some soft-serve ice cream from the ice cream shop at the edge of the park. You walk over to an empty bench under a shade tree along the bike path. There are people walking and biking along the path and you can hear some kids playing at a nearby park.
Your view is of a small river that’s glistening in the sunlight.
As you sit down you can feel the warm bench beneath you. You start to eat the ice cream. It’s slowly starting to melt so you lick the edges to catch the drips from sliding down the cone. You feel the light, crispy cone, rough inside of your hand. You taste the sweet coolness of the ice cream and it’s delicious.
Now continue imagining sitting on the bench finishing your ice cream cone. Pay attention to the sounds you hear and the feeling of the breeze, the warm bench, and the cool ice cream. See the ice cream cone in your hand, see the bike riders ride past and the walkers walk by. Try to hold it in your imagination until you finish the ice cream.
Make time to practice this exercise every day to strengthen your imagination. It’s good to start with simple things like we just did here. Things you’re familiar with and trust that you can imagine easily.
Once you feel that imagining things is coming easier and easier, start moving toward things you want to manifest.
Maybe start with traffic. Imagine it going smoothly. The other drivers don’t bother you at all. You get to work easily with no issues. It’s all good!
Keep going! Keep imagining bigger and bigger things and watch what you want, come to you easily!
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